OUR NEWS - MARCH 2019
Sugar and Spice and All Things Nice
A brand new bundle of girl arrived at iKhaya weighing a mere 2kgs! Too tiny for words but enough to fill our hearts to overflowing! She has been placed into foster care, and is being loved and cherished beyond comprehension. Her foster family is providing the most loving family home for her. Thank you to evey single person who reached out to supply our needs, plus more, to make her transion smooth and us wanting and in need of nothing. Your faithfulness is appreciated and we are so very grateful. God has used each one of you to meet this baby girl’s needs. He is a faithful father who looks after His own!
My Personal Handyman
I get daily “visitors” in my office. The children love to pop in for a chat, to draw a pic, get up to mischief or just for some much needed love and attention. On this occasion we offered this little girlie, after her watching with careful awareness, the screedriver to “fix” the office chair. With a measure of precision, that only a 2 year old has, she got right to work! Times like these melt my heart and give me a moment of pleasure and joy. What a priveledge to work at iKhaya impacting the lives of many children, and adults along the way.
Honouring Our Moms
Raising children is no walk in the park for most parents let alone raising children that are not your own flesh and blood. Then add in the traumatic past our children have experienced and the task becomes so much more complicated. Our ladies give of themselves daily to meet the needs of each and every child at iKhaya and to honour them as mothers, our children treated them to a morning tea. With the help and inspiration from our volunteers, they served their mothers refreshments and showered them with great entertainment and special words from the heart.
Taking advantage of the great outdoors and open spaces that we are blessed with at the property… having a campout under the stars with a bonfire. The mesmerising fire, the dampness of the dew, the treat of eating a picnic supper outdoors and attempting to sleep under the stars were all part of making wonderful memories! The children loved every minute of this adventure and constantly ask when they will do it again! We so often take life’s little things for granted. This is a simple reminder to slow down and enjoy the moments we so easily miss in the course of our busyness.
Open Water Lesson
Sonja Swim School ended the swimming season with a bash! Sonja invited us to the Zululand Multi Sports Club in Richards Bay for an open water swimming lesson, lunch and some play time fun. Did you ever consider that swimming in a dam verses a pool comes with different challenges? When swimming in the pool you can stop, hold on to the edge when tired, and rest if needed. When swimming in the sea or dam you don’t have this option! The water is clear in a pool but open water is most often mirky or dirty and one cannot see the bottom let alone any dangers that lurk below! Kids can easily panic when suddenly they find themselves in deep water and with nothing to hang onto! Swimming in open water is therefore more risky, so one should be fit enough and able to swim reasonable distances before the transition from the pool to open water. There is more to learning to swim than meets the eye! Thank you Sonja and Debi for treating our children to this adventure that came with a hidden life skill too!
Sphe turned 2 this month and celebrated his birthday with his iKhaya siblings. We are truly blessed to be able to spoil each child with a gift from us (the family he knows as his own) and to throw them a small, intimate yet fun party. We do this from the heart to demonstrate the love we have for them and the place they dearly fill in our hearts and lives! Here’s a shout out to those who financially support this initiative. If you too would like to be a part of a birthday party please contact me to get more details. We woud love to have you on board!
Dearest iKhaya friends and family
I count my daily blessings. To work at iKhaya alone, I count as a privelege. To be doing what I love and am passionate about, fulfilling my calling, touching and changing lives, witnessing God’s hand of provision, grace and restoration are some of the daily gifts I am thankful for! Without God and without his people’s obedience and generosity we certainly would not be able to do our work or to do it to the standard we so desire. Providing a better life and a second chance is one thing but to provide each child with a great education with the prospects of tertiary studies and access to job oportunities, learning life and social skills, having healthy, nurishing meals and access to excellent medical care, all while being loved and cared for by “parental figures” are the deeper desires of our hearts. We dream of refining our home structure, even more than we already have, to see each child in a family unit. This would mean building new cluster homes or modifying the existing structures to accomplish this feet. If you feel God stirring you to partner with us in property development please give me a call. Otherwise join us in prayer as we trust God to open the flood gates of His provision for this project.
We love and appreciate you all!
Love and greetings, Loressa and family iKhaya
OUR NEWS - FEBRUARY 2019
What a privilege to be situated in the countryside, on a farm-like property shared with Solid Ground Church. The open spaces are great for getting exercise, fresh air and for sport activities like bike riding, cricket, hockey and so on. Even the babies get to enjoy the newly paved driveways! This little tot built her confidence with walking while pushing the “walker toy” around. Caring for babiesincludes one on one time stimulation for physical, mental and emotional growth and development. We are blessed to partner with APCM in Germany, an agency that sends young, passionate teens our way for a volunteer year of serving and giving to others. Just in case you are wondering… our tiny tot is now dashing around the home with speed already!
Air Products blessed us with this amazing, brand new jumping castle for Christmas. What a treat to have our very own castle to use at our kiddies parties, making them colourful and such fun! If you would like to put a smile on a child’s face for their birthday please contact me, Loressa, to find out how you can get involved with our parties!
Fun to Learn?
Learning and playing are synonms for a pre-schooler. Doing fun activities like dancing to music, dressing up, climbing, swinging, walking and obstacle courses incorporating gmnastic moves all develops and improves balance, logical thinking, creativity, position in space, crossing the midline, core strength and language. No amount of play, whether structured or free, can ever be too much for a developing mind and body. The more FUN it is the more they LEARN! Our wide open spaces plus the use of the Solid Ground Church Youth Centre makes our pre-school mornings extra fun. Bronwyn, our teacher, and our dedicated volunteers make this all happen! Our home is so blessed to incorporate stimulatory learning into the day to day lives of the kids in prepartion for BIG SCHOOL.
Our older school going children get to explore the world beyond the property a whole lot more than the younger ones. They love outings, as we all do! Swimming lessons by Sonja Swim School, Horse Riding Lessons with Teen Volunteers at a neighbouing farm, trips to town to spend their pocket money or to takea playful dip are just a few of the fun times they enjoy. Both big and small kids learn through fun. Social skills including socally acceptable behaviour, public safety, water safety and new life skills (caring and interacting with animals, horse riding and swimming) awareness of the value of money and relying on hard earned cash rather than handouts are some of the valuable lessons being learned as they explore life. A bonus is the fresh air and exercise they get as a freebie!
Almost a Teen…
Celebrating her 12th birthday with school friends and iKhaya siblings. A treasure hunt, mingling and cake of course made her day a treat. Thanks to those who contribute to making our parties possible and for enabling us to give our kids gifts too. Our older children love their monetary gifts which we introduced last year. They get to shop for a new outfit of their choice and save or spend the rest. We are aiming at instilling good spending and budgeting habits all while the children express and develop their individual clothing styles and make choices to either save or spend.
A little of the wild side of life…
Experiencing a taste of our beautiful rural African landscapes and wildlife with Julie before she headed back to France was an absolute MUST. We made a day trip to Hluhluwe Game Reserve and were treated to a lion sighting even if it was a distant view that needed binoculars. But I must sayshe needs to return to see the giraffe that evaded us in a tempt to lure Julie back! We have grown to love Julie in the 6 months that she dedicated her time, love and heart to us here at iKhaya. She left us with a void… her infectious laugh, joking and fun spirit are missed! Until we meet again. We love you Julie!
Dear friends of iKhaya
Thank you from the bottom of our hearts for the support and love you give to iKhaya. It is the little we each do that makes the task we do possible. Thanks for the special part you play!
With love and blessings
Loressa and the iKhaya family
Hi-ho, hi-ho it's off to school we go!
We have 14 children attending BIG school in town and 6 in our internal pre-school for ages 3 to 5 year olds. Look how proud and happy they were to be so neatly kitted out, ready for success!
Airproducts for the Waltons Back 2 School packages, Konecranes for your generous financial donation and to all those who donated towards our kids school needs, we say THANK YOU! Every donation of secondhand uniforms, finances, stationery items, lunch and school bags was very much appreciated! We were so truly blessed that this year we were able to share our blessings with a few more children in our community who were without.
Know that you too were a part of a bigger picture… meeting a greater need than iKhaya alone. You are all AWESOME!
A Joyful Noise
Music can have such a positive impact on a person's mindset and well-being and may even relieve stress, anxiety, and depression. At iKhaya we are growing in this area as we are slowly introducing musical instruments/ lessons and singing as a planned activity. If you would like to teach our kids to play or sing we would LOVE to hear from you.
Activities that stimulate vision, hearing, touch and movement, all help toddlers make sense of their world and move towards it. It is important to spend time watching what they are doing and what they take an interest in, and then repeating it, providing more of the same. It is in daily interactions with a loving, consistent caregiver that children receive the most valuable input. Spending time with our children, watching them, and to have fun together, is the key to stimulating their development. Our mornings at iKhaya are filled with many activities, both planned and spontaneous as well as in- and outdoors. Activities are varied to stimulate and develop fine and gross motor skills, language and speech, healthy social interactions and accepable behaviour, discipline and structure, as well as growing their imagination and problem solving skills. Babies and toddlers learn best through play, loving interactions and through the examples we model to them daily.
Dance to the beat of your dreams...
There’s just something about dancing! It’s a universal language, and it makes people feel good. There’s a reason so many people find a connection to dance. It’s musical. It’s physical, and it’s spiritual. And more! Our kids began expressing their love for dance through lessons with Kim at Dance Academy a few years ago. Today they continue doing their own little shows and practice sessions at home. Dancing is so good for them plus it is a great team builder as they choreograph and practice their group work!
Thank you Mkhulu (Len Helfrich) for treating the school children to this fantastic adventure! What a treat to sail on the yatch, Sea Fever, you personally hand crafted! You are super talented and we are blessed to have you in our daily lives!
Gigles, smiles and chatter!
We focus on loads of activities that arouse the sense of sight, sound, touch, taste and smell of our little ones. Infant stimulation can help improve attention span, memory, curiosity, and nervous system development. This all enables babies to reach developmental milestones faster and aids in the development of motor skills. At iKhaya our volunteers spend this quality time with the babies each morning which also builds relationships and social skills. We enjoy their smiles, giggles and chatter as they develop and enjoy our interactions too.
Dear Friends, I would like to end off with these words, “I believe God sent you into my life to give me something to fight for; to show me there is love in this world; to bring me hope and to bring me joy”. These words reflect the nature and call of my heart, as I know I am called to be where I am right now, doing what I do each day, loving and pouring out into the lives I touch and change! By His might and by His power alone am I able to fulfill this calling and mission to reach into the lives and hearts of the children of iKhaya. He gives the HOPE and JOY that outweighs the hurting and challenges we sometimes face. He is our Heavenly Father and He is the Father to the fatherless.
With love and greetings,
Loressa, Staff and Kids iKhaya
Playball is a huge plus for physical development, gross motors skills training, improving balance, ball skills, concentration and following instructions and so much more. Our pre-primary and primary school kids enjoyed parties and a time of showing off their achievements to us as they completed their year of playball classes.
A Little Bit of Crazy…
It helps to be a little crazy to volunteer at iKhaya. There is nothing like a little ighthearted fun to ease the load! We have a fantastic team of young international gals who give their best to serve and love with all they have. A medium to long term stay is best for the home and the children so if you are thinking of volunteering as a gap year, love kids, are not afraid of getting your hands dirty and have something to give to make life better for others then give me a shout! We would love to hear from you.
Christmas is a time to share love with one another as we celebrate the birth of our Lord and King Jesus Christ. The staff and children enjoy a great South African traditional braai together and the children open their Christmas gifts with glee! Thank you to those who catch our heart and partner with us in this time of giving and blessing! The smiles are proof enough that our home was blessed and harts were happy. Thank you for your love, support and generosity!
Celebrating our kids’ birthdays is dear to my heart. For me it is an important show of our love and care for them individually and for who they are. Making them the center of attention and the focus of our activities is our way of making them feel wanted and important. We have loads of fun together too. In December we celebrated during the school holidays so we had more time to work with and decided on a pool party in town as we have water restrictions on the property. We were blessed with the use of a stunning family home, a water slide, party treats and gifts for our birthday boys! These pics just speak of all the fun we had.
To support of our birthdays please contact Loressa. We would love to hear from you!
Needs: 11 Gifts for ages birth to 5 yrs; party treats; balloons, face paints, prizes for games
The summer holidays, although extra short this year, was fun-filled with a variety of activities including baking, the outdoors and loads of sea, sand and sun! We have 4 amazing international volunteers who pour their love into their every moment spent in our home and with our kiddos. There was simply no time for being bored!
Greetings and love
from Loressa, Staff and Kids
“Be the change that you wish to see in the world.” Mahatma Ghandi